Emotional Regulation · Parents · April 3, 2026

Why some teens shut down when they feel overwhelmed

A teen with curly hair sits quietly on a couch looking at their phone

Shutting down is rarely defiance. It's often a protective state — and reducing input helps the nervous system regulate before problem-solving becomes possible again.

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